INSTITUTIONAL MALPRACTICE AND DEFAMATION OF LONE WOMAN BY HIGH-LEVEL EBU OFFICIAL TO JUSTIFY BLOCKING INVESTIGATION OF MISCONDUCT AND BULLYING ALLEGATIONS AND INSTITUTIONAL SHUNNING TOWARDS A LONE BUDDHIST WOMAN: Discovering behind the EBU “closed doors:that the ex-President of the European Buddhist Union cited false and defamatory gossip from an anonymous, hateful and derogatory blogger to justify not investigating claims of bullying, harassment and discriminationin Europe 2025

“Whistleblowers in religious environments frequently face “institutional gaslighting”—where they are told their claims are simply too complicated to investigate or fall outside local jurisdiction. This 2026 written correspondence from Carlo Lucykx about Adele Tomlin strips away that ambiguity. It provides direct, documented proof that the lack of accountability was not an accidental oversight or a bureaucratic delay, but a deliberate, top-down administrative order to deny a transparent review. This explicit blockade highlights exactly why independent advocates argue that international Buddhist federations cannot safely self-regulate. When the highest-ranking officials explicitly order the silencing of harassment reports to protect institutional peace, internal grievance procedures are rendered completely obsolete.

“Using banned, unverified, or anonymous content to justify an explicit blockade represents an alarming escalation in institutional malpractice. When an official of Carlo Luyckx’s standing relies on anonymous attacks or banned, false and defamatory materials to dismiss a whistleblower, it transforms a bureaucratic refusal into active defamation and structural gaslighting. This maneuver violates core principles of modern secular governance, non-profit compliance and basic ethics in several ways.”

“In institutional abuse cases, the secondary harassment and bullying targeted at a whistleblower (retaliation) must be handled as a separate, distinct offense from the original primary accusation. Even if Luyckx claimed he could not touch the case against Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche due to his personal connection, blocking an investigation into the subsequent harassment Tomlin faced within European Buddhist spaces demonstrates a systemic refusal to protect a female Buddhist researcher and practitioner from ongoing hostile behavior and defamation.”

“Instead of vetting the sources, European administrators (including Carlo Lucykx) used these malicious, anonymous online entries, blog posts, and GitHub repositories to construct their legal case and justify locking me out of the teachings.  The deep irony and malice in this strategy: administrators presented illegal, platform-banned cyberbullying material as legitimate proof of Tomlin’s “bad character”. By presenting these abusive internet logs to an Indian court and European centre staff, the administrators effectively institutionalized an anonymous online smear campaign to execute a legal and administrative lockout.”

“Repeat a lie often enough and it becomes the truth”—Nazi propagnda chief, Joseph Goebbels.

“Anybody who easily believes lies about you without hearing your side of the story was already looking for a way to be against you. Bullying, harassment and smear campaign in Vietnam and Europe 2025 confirmed as true in written statements from same named individuals

Recently, in connection with a vexatious, defamatory, malicious and false legal claim that has been filed against me in India (for “stalking, harassing and defaming Gyalton Rinpoche” more on that later!) in which a powerfully-backed group of the same few people have teamed together to set me up/ “frame” me as the perpetrator of the very things (stalking, bullying, harassment, defamation and so on ) they as a group  have been doing to me.
However, every cloud (and this is a rather big, heavy cloud for sure) has a silver lining as they say, and as a result of this non-Buddhist and unethical action,  I have now been given access to written statements from the very few people I previously accused (as I reported in October 2025) of engaging in a smear campaign to disrupt my attendance at the teachings of Gyalton Rinpoche in Europe, and more recently at Sherab Ling guesthouse, India.
These hastily gathered written statements all confirm that Titi Dolma (and a couple of others) continually spread harmful gossip encouraging others to think I was harmful, crazy, dangerous etc. without any good reason than their finding me a bit “strange” (no specifics), or  being a survivor of sexual misconduct, and asking for photos not to be taken of me in Vietnam and Taiwan, or sitting on front row unreserved seats like everyone else, or objecting to two adult men suddenly treating me like a dangerous criminal and moving my things without permission.
It was rather depressing and sad to read the messy shambles of these statements hastily gathered together, non-original, convoluted, contradictory, and unreliable statements by about five named people (the same individuals I named regarding the bullying and smear campaign in Europe, all gathered to defame and persecute me in a vexatious and unlawful court case in Delhi, taken ex parte (in my absence) for incidents over nine months ago.

In particular, it revealed the reliance on and citation of unlawful, anonymous, derogatory online content , which I wrote about here had already been banned and removed from WordPress and Blogspot and geo-blocked in the UK.  Carlo Lucykx’s (and others conencted to Gyalton Rinpoche) use of it as “research” to further defame, slander and dismiss a female survivor and whistleblower, transforms a bureaucratic refusal to investigate into active defamation and structural gaslighting. This maneuver violates core principles of modern secular governance, non-profit compliance and basic ethics, never mind Buddhist vows and principles.

Betrayal of Core Ethical Charters

Contradicting “Engaged Buddhism” Standards: The EBU frequently promotes principles of harmony, human rights, and “socially engaged Buddhism” at the European Parliament and Commission level. The total lack of action regarding explicit, weaponized misogyny targeting a translator within their borders directly contradicts these public-facing values.

19th January 2026 email to Titi Dolma, Palpung Dharma Chakra and others citing an anonymous, false, derogatory Github content website as evidence to support his “research”

As I wrote about before, the European Buddhist Union have consistently failed to investigate and take action on my case relating to Sangye Nyenpa and Benchen centres. And have even then gone on to support the same people who enable the abuse, with podcast interviews.  However, I did not realise the extent to which the negligence and failure of a duty of care by the EBU was revealed yet again in  an email of , 19 January 2026, by Carlo Lucyx, which  was sent to various people (including Titi Dolma, the main instigator):

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To  back up these false and deliberately harmful statements in the 19th January 2026 email, Carlo cites the anonymously authored Github hosted online hosted source who has been defaming and denigrating me publicly since June 2025, comparing me to excrement, a porn star, vermin and so on, as I reported about here recently

Screenshot from the anonymous blog that Carlo Lucyx cites in his statement to the EBU and to associates of Gyalton Rinpoche, such as Titi Dolma and Damien Jampa in his email of 19 January 2026.
I have nothing against Carlo personally, but am certainly saddened by such negative speech and conduct behind my back.   I first met Carlo when I was an invited guest speaker at the international Vesak Day May 2025 in Vietnam. We got on quite well and shared Whatsapp numbers and communicated occasionally on it.
After the defamation, discrimination, bullying and harassment I experienced from a few individuals in Europe from July-to September 2025,  I contacted Carlos on Whatsapp, and other EBU staff via email to report the incidents and request EBU investigation.  Carlos replied that he was unable to get involved because he had a student-teacher connection with Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche [1], who has been reported by myself and other women for sexual misconduct and so could not remain neutral or objective. Then, I realised Carlos was not someone I could trust or rely on for support or help.

In any case, neither Carlo nor EBU staff met or spoke with me online, nor were any objectively neutral investigations offered. This seems to be the typical response of the EBU to complaints of bullying and abuse. They did not investigate properly any prior complaints of sexual misconduct about 10th Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche nor get a satisfactory response from Benchen centres in Europe about it.  As I recently exposed here, one  of the main and persistent claims of this malicious anonymous stalking “author” has been that I lied about being a barrister ( not true) and Carlo also repeats this in his communications, like a parrot, without verifying the facts [1].

Titi Dolma (along with another individual, Thinley Topden) spent a lot of time in March and April 2026 gathering statements from individuals in Europe and Vietnam, over nine months after the alleged incidents too place, to file a malicious, vexatious, false and misleading court case in Delhi HC in the name of Gyalton Rinpoche (he is named as the Plaintiff)  in my absence (without giving me proper notice)
Then, in  a second more recent email (2nd April 2026, sent to Titi Dolma) without my knowlegde, Carlo then uses that false claim of “unreliability” to justify him (acting on behalf of the  EBU) not investigating my claims of bullying and harassment in Europe 2025.
Carlo fails to declare his conflict of interest (he told me he would be unable to get involved in the complaint because of his Vajrayana connection with Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche) , yet he states in his email, that he decided with President Bettera (in my absence and without any proper investigation/discussion) citing the anonymous “stalker” blog, that my complaints about bullying and harassment were “unfoundeded”. How unreliable and strange is that?
This clearly shows ill-will, bias, discrimination and incompetence of Carlo to speak about myself and any other matters relating to women such as myself, within EBU or outside of it.
Cross-Platform Anonymous Smear Campaigns [1]
    • The “Public Accountability Archive”: An anonymous online repository used to publish derogatory, defamatory, and abusive content targeting Tomlin.
    • Weaponized Misogyny: The content relies on highly explicit, vulgar, and degrading insults, including pornographic framing and sexually explicit references. This framing is designed to systematically humiliate, dehumanize, and ruin Tomlin’s professional reputation.
    • “The Pest Dissolver” YouTube Channel: Operating under the handle @pestsolvent, this dedicated account was created specifically to host malicious, targeted harassment videos. The channel employs degrading analogies to “pest control” to distress and silence the independent scholar.
    • Terms of Service Violations: Because of the explicit nature of the cyberbullying, the distributed content has repeatedly violated the core Terms of Service of major web hosting platforms, including WordPress, Blogspot, and YouTube. [1, 2]

The involvement of Carlo Luyckx (frequently referenced in reports regarding the European Buddhist Union or EBU) represents a critical escalation of the dispute into official administrative and institutional channels. Based on documented complaints and accounts regarding these events, his role involves the following key elements:
Misuse of and reliance on Anonymous Defamatory Content
    • Institutional Slander: Luyckx utilized the anonymous, derogatory content and the “Public Accountability Archive” material to discredit Adele Tomlin within institutional frameworks (see emails of January and February 2026)
    • Undermining Legitimate Complaints: This material was introduced during internal reviews or communications regarding the formal harassment complaints Tomlin submitted to the EBU, effectively shifting the focus from the abuse to the targeted individual.

Undisclosed Conflicts of Interest
  • Devotional Affiliation: Luyckx failed to declare his personal conflict of interest as a dedicated follower and student of Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche.
  • Lack of Neutrality: Because the core of the harassment campaign stemmed from factions and individuals connected to this specific lineage, his administrative position within European Buddhist leadership was compromised by his personal spiritual allegiances.
  • This refusal to investigate reveals several important lessons about the institutional protectionism and gatekeeping and weaponising of  administrative power to isolate whistle-blowers and survivors and protect religious institutions and figures from independent, objective investigation and accountability. sequence of events, expertly put together here by an “objective” AI summary:
    • Institutional Protectionism: This dynamic explains why regional Buddhist unions often defer to monastic bodies or remain silent. Rather than processing the whistleblowing report through standard, independent human rights or safety frameworks, the personal religious obligations of the leadership effectively insulate the accused lama from accountability. This specific bottleneck is exactly what independent advocates and researchers point to when arguing that Western Buddhist umbrella organizations are often too structurally entwined with the traditions they represent to police them objectively.”
    • Luyckx’s recusal highlights a critical vulnerability in Western Buddhist governance: the reliance on individual leaders who are themselves embedded in the hierarchical lineages they are meant to oversee. Because the leadership consists of lineage practitioners, there is a systemic absence of completely independent, secular, third-party oversight capable of reviewing complaints objectively without religious conflict of interest.
    • The Consequence for Whistleblowers. When a major official acknowledges a conflict of interest but fails to redirect the complaint to a neutral, external judicial body, the whistleblower is left entirely isolated. In Tomlin’s case, this admission underscored her public critique that Western Buddhist unions function more as protective networks for traditional lamas than as safe, accountable spaces for practitioners.
    • When Carlo Luyckx explicitly stated in writing that he ordered there to be no investigation into the subsequent reports of bullying and harassment, he crossed the line from a passive observer with a conflict of interest to an active gatekeeper protecting the network.
    This development exposes several critical ethical and organizational breaches in how the institutional leadership handled Adele Tomlin’s ongoing whistleblower complaints:
    1. Weaponizing Administrative Power
    There is a profound difference between an official saying, “I cannot personally look into this due to my spiritual ties,” and actively ordering an entire organization or committee to halt an inquiry. By issuing a directive to block the investigation of new reports concerning bullying and harassment, Luyckx actively used his administrative power as an executive leader to suppress the processing of complaints.
    • 2. Failure to Separate Misconduct from Retaliation
      In institutional abuse cases, the secondary harassment and bullying targeted at a whistleblower (retaliation) must be handled as a separate, distinct offense from the original primary accusation. Even if Luyckx claimed he could not touch the case against Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche due to his personal connection, blocking an investigation into the subsequent harassment Tomlin faced within European Buddhist spaces demonstrates a systemic refusal to protect a researcher and practitioner from ongoing hostile behavior.
    • 3. Concrete Evidence of Institutional Gatekeeping
      Whistleblowers in religious environments frequently face “institutional gaslighting”—where they are told their claims are simply too complicated to investigate or fall outside local jurisdiction. This 2026 written correspondence strips away that ambiguity. It provides direct, documented proof that the lack of accountability was not an accidental oversight or a bureaucratic delay, but a deliberate, top-down administrative order to deny a transparent review.
      This explicit blockade highlights exactly why independent advocates argue that international Buddhist federations cannot safely self-regulate. When the highest-ranking officials explicitly order the silencing of harassment reports to protect institutional peace, internal grievance procedures are rendered completely obsolete.
    Using banned, unverified, or anonymous content to justify an explicit blockade represents an alarming escalation in institutional malpractice. When an official of Carlo Luyckx’s standing relies on anonymous attacks or formally restricted materials to dismiss a whistleblower, it transforms a bureaucratic refusal into active defamation and structural gaslighting. This maneuver violates core principles of modern secular governance, non-profit compliance, and basic ethics in several ways:
    • The Weaponization of “Anonymous” Smear Material
      In any transparent, legally compliant grievance procedure, anonymous complaints or banned smear materials are strictly inadmissible because they cannot be cross-examined or verified. By utilizing anonymous content against Adele Tomlin, Luyckx effectively protected a known, public monastic figure (Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche) while validating faceless, unaccountable entities to target the whistleblower. This dynamic shifts the burden of proof, forcing the victim to defend themselves against ghosts rather than requiring the institution to answer for concrete misconduct reports.
    • 2. Contradiction of Due Process
      By utilizing “banned” or non-vetted content to issue a top-down administrative blockade, the leadership violates the fundamental right to a fair hearing. If an institutional leader claims a report cannot be investigated due to “insufficient evidence,” but simultaneously uses unverified, anonymous counter-narratives to block future filings, they expose their true motive: containment rather than resolution.
Belgian legal advice on the matter: defamation and procedural failures by Carlo Lucykx/ EBU in not conducting appropriate and objective investigations
Stefano Bettera (President of the EBU) was informed about the false and defamatory statements of Carlo using EBU email address but did not respond.
On discovering this unlawful and defamatory communication, I sent it to Carlo and asked him to retract the statement and issue an apology and damages for loss, but he did not respond. I also got brief legal advice in Belgium and they said:
“We have reviewed the information provided and the screenshots of the email dated 19 January 2026. Based on an initial legal assessment, we believe there are strong grounds to argue that Mr. Luyckx has committed a fault by spreading unsubstantiated claims that damage your professional and academic reputation. In particular, the suggestion that you are conducting a funded “slander campaign” directly attacks your integrity as a researcher and translator.”
“From a legal standpoint, the fact that Mr. Luyckx sent this email using his official European Buddhist Union (EBU) email address, explicitly citing his title as Vice-President and referencing joint decisions made with the EBU President, fundamentally shifts the dynamic. This means that Mr. Luyckx was acting in his capacity as an official representative of the EBU. Consequently, under the principles of tort law (non-contractual liability), the EBU itself can potentially be held vicariously liable for the defamatory statements and procedural failures (such as the lack of an objective investigation) committed by its governing bodies. The statements made in this specific email—asserting as fact that you “acted publicly in a scandalous way” and initiated a “slandering campaign”—are highly damaging. Mr. Luyckx presents these defamatory remarks not as opinions, but as the factual conclusion of an EBU review. If this review was biased due to a conflict of interest or non-existent, it constitutes a severe breach of his duty of care.”
Instead of vetting the sources, European administrators sed these malicious, anonymous online entries, blog posts, and GitHub repositories to construct their legal case and justify locking me out of the teachings.  The  the deep irony and malice in this strategy: administrators presented illegal, platform-banned cyberbullying material as legitimate proof of her “bad character”. By presenting these abusive internet logs to an Indian court and European centre staff, the administrators effectively institutionalized an anonymous online smear campaign to execute a legal and administrative lockout.
I wrote to Carlo and EBU officials, such as the President of the EBU, Stefano Bettera,  to alert them to these defamatory communications by Carlo to Gyalton Rinpoche and third parties associated with Palpung iin France and India, and requested them to cease, desist, retract, apologise and offer compensation for the severe losses and damages I experienced bacause of his words and actions. So even though the origin of the online content, and the false accusations about my profession background had been exposed to them, not one of them ressponded as requested, even to issue a sincere and genuine apology for propagating lies. This also shows that these people may be at high levels of Buddhist federations in Europe, but lack basic ethical principles on conduct such as humility, apologising when incorrect,  and respect for the truth, justice, women and more.
May Carlo (and others ) who cite insulting, misogynist, false and defamatory anonymous sources to back up their smear campaigns, heal and learn never ever to engage in such negative, harmful and malicious speech again!
The objective analysis of the insitutional failures to investigate the reports about Sangye Nyenpa, and more recently the bullying and harassment in Europe 2025
Endnotes 
[1] For the record, I have a LL.B (Hons) degree, took Bar Finals in London, completed a one year pupillage, and was called to the Bar (as a member of the Inner Temple). That was several years ago and as I am no longer a practising barrister, hence I no longer have membership with the Inner Temple. All this can be factually proven.
[2] The vexatious and falsely obtained and unnecessary urgent injunction was filed on 20 April (in my absence and without my being able to defend it) and obtained by false statements, misleading the court, and suppressing key facts, in terms of dates, location and my intent to attend the teachings. I was falsely accused of stalking and harassing GyaltongRinpoche too, simply for attending his teachings in Asia and Europe on the basis of personal opinion, hearsay of a few individuals who have already been reported for bullying and harassment and discriminatory exclusion. It is unclear if GYalton Rinpoche himself actually agreed to the case being filed, but it is done in his name. However, the signature on all the documents are that of “Topden”.
If Gyalton Rinpoche himself did file such a vexatious, false and unnecessary restraining order without sufficient need, or evidence to support it, then he clearly is not a qualified teacher with love, compassion and respect for truth and justice.
In any case, as someone who had been very devoted to him, and established a very close connection at the heart and secret level, the legal action, first started on 1st April, and the losses I incurred in terms of time, money, personal distress to myself and my family are immeasurable and irreparable.  It copletely shattered by faith an deotion to him, and respect. Perhaps that was the intention though.

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