“These four who are competent, educated, assured, and learned, who have memorized the teachings and practice in line with the teachings, beautify the Saṅgha. What four? A monk, a nun, a layman, and a laywoman.”AN, 4.7
“Under the instruction of Khujjuttarā they all became Stream-enterers (sotāpannas)…The Buddha declared her foremost among lay women by reason of her extensive knowledge.”
- a “Q&A” discussion/teaching on a Dharma topic of general relevance and interest, and/or
- a monthly practice (such as Noble Tārā on the 8th, or Yeshe Tsogyel/Guru Rinpoche on the 10th of every lunar month).
Proposed first meeting topic: “What are the most important aspects (and issues) of being a lay Buddhist practitioner in the 21st Century?”
Non-hierarchical/non-monastic
Register interest in joining and pre-requisites
- Please fill in this registration form. Attendance will be free of charge (donations if you wish) and once (or twice) per month.
- The only pre-requisites are being a Buddhist, which means having taken refuge in the three jewels of Buddha, Dharma and Sangha (or wanting to do so) and training/keeping the five main Buddhist precepts of a layperson. Also there will be no anonymity in the meetings, people need to give their real names, and have their videos on (for most, if not all) of the meeting.
- The first group meet (if there are enough people interested, mininum 5, maximum 40) will start on an auspicious day, like Noble Tārā day.
Khujjuttāra Lotus Jewel: Name of the community: laywoman, Khujjuttarā, one of the ten foremost female lay disciples of Buddha and laypeople as a “jewel” of the community

Inspired by the 17th Karmapa’s naming of the annual Karma Kagyu nuns event, Arya Khsema (named after one of Buddha’s foremost nun students), and to maintain the connection to the “heart” of original Buddhist practice and teachings, the new community is named after a woman, Khujjuttarā foremost for her learning, who was initially a servant to an Indian Queen. The Shakyamuni Buddha named ten foremost laywomen disciples [2] and Khujjuttarā is one of them. Her inspiring story in full can be read here.
In this way, Queen Sāmāvatī and her female servants were given regular discourses in the palace by Khujjuttarā and became important female laypeople disciples of the Buddha [3]. So, even though Khujjuttarā was born into a slave family and had physical difficulties, she is a reminder of how in the Buddha’s community all women, young, old, ugly, beautiful, poor, rich, physically able or not, were included, taught, praised and promoted out of pure merit and ability.
In addition, it is called “Lotus Jewel” because lotus represents women, wisdom and flourishing, and jewel because ancient Buddhist texts refer to lay practitioners who uphold the five precepts, as a “jewel ornament” of the Buddhist community. For more on the five precepts, and a set of video reels I created to explain them in brief, see Buddhist Ethics/Conduct section of the website here.
Fundraising for Offerings to the 17th Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje

Inspired by the 17th Karmapa’s online teachings, all offered for free without payment for many years now, and recent teaching on the importance in Vajrayana in making offerings to one’s guru as an object for gathering merit, I propose to also use the new community space to raise money to donate to the 17th Karmapa’s teachings, centres and activities. As there does not seem to be any clear central place where devotees can send their money/donations to him for his teachings at present (let me know if there is!).
As we know, the 17th Karmapa has still not been allowed to return to Rumtek Monastery, in India and plans to build a centre for him in Delhi (and other places, like Thailand) have sadly not come to fruition. The 17th Karmapa had to remain in a Gelugpa monastery in Dharamsala for many years. It is said that his funds mainly come from wealthy Asian and European individuals but it is not clear.
I do not have a lot of money to donate personally, and for several years, especially during COVID lockdown, was running the website and work “on empty” so to speak! My main offering is of course the contents of this website, and my other Dharma activities (which I have indicated in my will, I want to be given to the 17th Karmapa when I pass away). However, if people (like me) would like to offer monetary donations for the 17th Karmapa’s teaching activities, I have now created a space we can do that via my Paypal (Dakini Publications@gmail.com), or at my fundraising page on ko-fi.com.
Music? Free Money by Patti Smith, and Come Together by The Beatles.
In the spirit of generosity, love, metta and compassion, Adele Tomlin, 22nd April 2025.


Endnotes
1. Foremost in first going for refuge: Sujātā Seniyadhītā
2. Foremost as donor: Visākhā
3. Foremost in learning: Khujjuttarā
4. Foremost who dwells in metta: Sāmāvatī
5. Foremost in absorption: Uttarānandamātā
6. Foremost in giving fine things: Suppavāsā Koliyadhītā
7. Foremost in caring for the sick: Suppiyā
8. Foremost in experiential confidence: Kātiyānī
9. Foremost in reliability: Nakulamātā
10. Foremost in confidence based on oral transmission: Kāḷī of Kuraraghara
[3] In the Pāli Canon itself, Khujjuttarā’s repute is mentioned in the SN 17.24, entitled “Only Daughter,” the Buddha states that faithful female lay disciples should urge their beloved daughters in the following manner:
- “Dear, you should become like Khujjuttarā the lay follower and Velukandakiyā, Nanda’s mother – for this is the standard and criterion for my female disciples who are lay followers, that is Khujjuttarā the lay follower and Velukandakiyā, Nanda’s mother.”
A similar reference is made in AN 4.18.6. Additionally, in AN 1.14, verse 260, the Buddha declares Khujjuttarā to be his “most learned” female lay disciple. The Khuddaka Nikaya book Itivuttaka, a collection of 112 short discourses, is attributed to Khujjuttara’s recollection of Buddha’s discourses [2].
I love this! Also shoutout to Vimalakirti Sutra.
Thanks!
Thanks! Will arrange an online meeting in a month or two.